Gerrer Chassidim have very strict rules about physical relations after marriage. If you are thinking of getting engaged to a Gerrer Bochur just verify if he keeps these rules and make sure you want to live with them. Some of these rules are no intimacy except every other Friday night. No physical affection between spouses ever. They will not tell you all these rules untill AFTER you are married and it is to late to back out, so just make sure before you decide to go ahead with a Gerrer shidduch.
Gerrer Chassidim wear a spodik. :)
Posted by: Yirmiahu | July 17, 2009 at 09:29 PM
Gerrer Chassidim have very strict rules about physical relations after marriage. If you are thinking of getting engaged to a Gerrer Bochur just verify if he keeps these rules and make sure you want to live with them. Some of these rules are no intimacy except every other Friday night. No physical affection between spouses ever. They will not tell you all these rules untill AFTER you are married and it is to late to back out, so just make sure before you decide to go ahead with a Gerrer shidduch.
Posted by: Lman Haemes | November 15, 2009 at 10:21 AM